Paul David Stanko grew up in a traditional family in Bloomington, Minnesota, later finding his creative and spiritual calling and a loving life partner after years of heartbreak. Then, nearly six decades into his life, an ancestry test revealed that the man who raised him was not his biological father—and that he had an entirely different family waiting to meet him. Paul joins Kate to discuss the discovery that changed everything, meeting his new siblings, and reconsidering his identity without diminishing the father who loved and raised him. Reality Life with Kate Casey Vanity Fair Article: https://www.vanityfair.com/culture/st... (https://www.vanityfair.com/culture/st...) What to Watch List: https://katecasey.substack.com (https://katecasey.substack.com/) Patreon: 
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